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ary__23
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me and my boyfriend have been going out for about 5 months now and a few weeks ago me and my best friend got in a fight, so i went to talk to him about what happened and he took her side. I was sooo confused? and now that my best friend and i made up she told me that he goes to her about everything, and she goes to him about everything. I ask them both why they don't come to me and they tell me that they feel more confortable talking to each other. That got me more confused i thought me and her were best friends. And should my boyfriend come to me after 5 months?? should i be worried about them hooking up? she just got out of a 7 month relationship and she is just throughing her self at all her guy friends. Is my boyfriend next?
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smilee_kylie
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I can understand why you're concerned. Having your boyfriend confide in your best friend instead of you doesn't seem right. The advice I can give you is to talk to each of them again. Tell your boyfriend that because you are his girlfriend, and you mean more to him (or at least you should) that you assume he would go to you first and then ask him why he doesn't. see if there is something that is stopping him. Then do the same for your friend. Express your concerns. If they care about you, they'll understand.
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AnarchicLullaby
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Wow you know what maybe you should listen to her....or you could have came to me about it....
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powerfulone1987
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that message above........a little creepy.........yeah.....

Anyway, I would definitely be concerned and find out what the problem is immediately, cause if my bf/gf was doing that, I would defintely think that something was going on or would soon start going on.

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