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is this a stereotype?or do you think its true?..."your 1st will be a hard one to get over?"...i was wondering because i feel its kinda weird that i dont feel like ima gona die if i break up with my 1st..any opinion u can give me would be great thanx
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What 1st are you talking about? 1st boyfriend, 1st love, 1st person to have sex with? I think it all depends on how close you are. Sometimes I think I would never love again if I lost my boyfriend (who happens to be the 1st all 3 mentioned above). Other times, I think that I could manage. Hopefully I won't be faced with that crisis anytime soon.
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getting over my first love, first boyfriend, was probably the hardest thing i ever had to go through in my life. it took me over 2 years, but also made me grow a lot. i'm a different person now.

but if i didn't love him so much, i'd probably not feel this way. it all depends how much you like someone, to know how much it will hurt to let them go...

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With my first boyfriend it was a pretty casual thing, and the breakup was amicable so we're still friends. It was a lot harder with my first love (also my first mistake, lol). He was a bronc rider and wild lands fire fighter, and I fell madly in love. When I wouldn't sleep with him, he developed the habit of sleeping with my good friends. That one didn't end too well, and I was crushed for quite a while . I was pretty attached to the first guy I had sex with too, but he kinda ended up being a jerk. It wasn't that big a deal for me, like "oh well, he didn't deserve me anyway!". That's the most recent one, and I'm totally over it.


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My first serious relationship was pretty unstable. When we broke up, it wasn't difficult because he had moved away, not to mention, his problems were really taking a toll on "us" anyway. I was sad for a while, but not nearly as sad as I was when we were dating because he was just drowning in his problems.

The relationship that followed that was MUCH harder to break. It was a looooooooooong one and breaking up was a drastic change for me. Considering I hate change, this was not good.

So there ya go. first break up was way easier than the second.

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well if your talking fst bf well they will always stick with you and thats a good thing fst sex ALWAYS stays with you coz most of the time it was woth the wrong person or at the wrong place so on but i guess if the person ment sumthing then iit will alays be there also you most of the time remember you r fts time of everything

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Right now I'm going through a breakup with my first love, real boyfriend, and person I lost my virginity to so its very difficult. I have never experienced such pain before, but I think in your case it depends on what he means to you. I was extremely attached to my ex so this is really hard but it doesn't seem like you are that attached and if you feel that the relationship isn't going anywhere then why stay in something that you don't want to stay in?
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