Hey everyone. Recently I've been having trouble 'falling in love again'. I mean, it's not the type of thing where I broke up with someone and haven't got over them, I'm just having trouble getting back into the old spirit of falling in love. Mainly because I've been so absorbed in my family issues, school issues, and I've been stressed out I decided to forget about having crushes etc. for a while. I remember I used to fall madly inlove, but now it seems like I don't care.. but I want to care. There is this guy I like and I don't want to ask him out unless I know I really care about him. Any tips/advice for me and others like me to get back in the old spirit?
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why do you have to be in love all the time???
the answer is, you don't have to be! if oyu don't feel like pursuing a relationship, then just don't. there's nothing wrong with that. in fact, if your priorities demand that you do other things like work, go to school, attend to your family, then you're probably better off not trying to fall in love anyway.
fuhgettaboutit, and give yourself some time off to focus on yourself and your responsibilities. love can wait.
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