tonight i was at a rock show with my girlfriend, i went outside to go find a bathroom. my girlfriend was sitting around the corner with the kid that she cheated on me with 2 months ago. they were just talkingbut as you can imagine, i was kinda mad. i didnt say anything, but i walked up and stood there untill he left. my gf acted like nothing happened, and went to talk to her friends even though it was obvious that i was upset. i told her how i felt afterwards, and she refused to appologize. i was only mad because i didnt think she should've been alon with him anyway. am i right to think that?
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personally, i think you handled the situation well. your girlfriend still needs to regain your trust, and it's just inconsiderate as all hell for her to have behaved like that. *However*, you're aren't "right" because she shouldn't have been alone with him.
She's inconsiderate of your feelings in that she would go hang out with him alone, but unless you and she struck some sort of deal where she wouldn't talk to him anymore, she still reserves the right to see whoever she wants.
i know that can be confusing, but i hope you kinda get my gist.
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