hi2u! first post here after lurking forever looking for good relationship advice (might have paid off! read below!)
intro: this girl has been a major part of my life for about 5 years (since freshman year) and we both "seperated" to go to college. She's up near Canada at Western Washington and I'm near Mexico at Universal Technical Institute.
We talked for about 3 hours last night!!!! I got an AIM message that she was going to get drunk and partay so i called her, she didn't answer so i left a message telling he to call me back (i was kinda worried). She called at about 1ish when she came back and she didn't have anything to drink... cuz one girl bailed (their supplier) and all this one gay guy had was peach shnapps (pepermint is soooooo much better, liquid candy cane!). She tried it and didn't like it.
So after talking for about 10 min, she said she was kinda tired and then she told me something I never thought I'd hear her say: "Do you realize how many people say that we will be married?"
Yeah... married. My whole congregation thinks (some "know") that we will be married in the future. Most of her friends think so... some of mine think that too... I've never thought about it until she actually said it. She then proceeded to tell me that I shouldn't be worried about her dating other guys here because they all either do drugs or are plain stupid/ugly/whatever. She misses me and kinda wanted me to come back.
Well, another hour down the line and she says that we should take a little vacation at a little village in the Cascade mountains for a few days. Just us (well, a few other people will be living there too), in the snow, together for the winter. it's either that or Cannon Beach in Oregon during the summer when I'm done with school.
This girl is amazing... I miss her so much! <3!!!
To any of you who have been married or are now, do you beleive in high school sweethearts getting married? I was a huge opposer of the idea.. but now I think about it and... it could work for the right people. I know I'm kinda jumping the gun here but yeah... any input?