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confused_cutie_03
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okay, well my boyfriend (for 8wks) has been asking me alot lately for me to show him my boobs and it's not that i dont want to its just i kinda have a bad tanline, what do you think he'll think? i am kinda dark complected from bring at the lake all summer but my boobs dont get sun. and if i do show him then he'll go and tell all of his friends or just dump me and i dont wanna gt more involved than i already am.... what's your ADIVCE?? please help!!
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Glam
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First of all, whether he sees your "boobs" or not is COMPLETELY up to YOU.

I don't know what he'll think about your tanline, since I'm not him obviously But I don't think a tanline is anything to be disgusted over...sure, you don't see many people in magazines with tanlines or acne or scars, but in real life people aren't airbrushed models.

and if i do show him then he'll go and tell all of his friends or just dump me

Well, can you trust this guy not to tell his friends if you ask him not to?
...Or is this a typo and you meant if i don't show him?
If so, think about it: Is it worth being with a guy who's going to dump you if you don't expose various parts of your body when he wants?

Cheers
<3 Glam


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confused_cutie_03
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quote:
Originally posted by confused_cutie_03:
okay, well my boyfriend (for 8wks) has been asking me alot lately for me to show him my boobs and it's not that i dont want to its just i kinda have a bad tanline, what do you think he'll think? i am kinda dark complected from bring at the lake all summer but my boobs dont get sun. and if i don't show him then he'll go and tell all of his friends or just dump me and i dont wanna gt more involved than i already am.... what's your ADIVCE?? please help!!


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badly_behaved_badger
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Now, I'm not a mindreader , but from the sound of your post, you don't sound happy about showing this guy your boobs.

What Glam said is absolutely right, and just to add to that, as with any sexual activity, don't do it before you're confident about it. Having doubts is a sign that your probably not ready, ok babe? Which is why I think you should read this:
http://www.scarleteen.com/relationships/safety3.html

I hope that helps Oh, and I don't know if the above post was a mistake, but please don't post your entire message again...it wastes space. Thanks.

*badger*


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Etch
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If anyone is immature enough to make judgments on something so trivial as a tan line then they arent worth associating yourself with. Period. Same goes with stretchmarks, acne, pale skin, body shape, etc. etc.

If you honestly think this guy is going to judge you then he is either A) someone you shouldnt be dating or B) you should hold out for yourself because YOU are not ready to be showing people your chest.


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