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k, there is this guy, that i really like, but he doesnt like me. the thing is that he knows that i like him. but the real problem is that i cant get over him, i dont know why that no matter what he does to hurt me i just cant seem to get over him, i jsut let it slide say ok stop all over my heart and forget me in the mud. i dont know what to do. can you help??????
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wow. i get like that sometimes. maybe you should try to focus on his bad points and just rember that he wouldnt act any differently if you were boyfriend and girlfriend.
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I have been "in a relationship" with my best friend, my wife. I don't believe a person should physically or emotionally hurt another person; YOU need to find a guy who can be a friend first & then a lover.
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You might want to work on valuing yourself some more as well. If you let this guy walk all over you and it just keeps on that way, I would say it's time to build up your confidence so you can find someone more deserving. I've had this experience myself actually. It's hard not to be clouded by your own emotions, and sometimes the only thing to do is ride it out. But do NOT put yourself in situations where he can emotionally or physically or in ANY WAY harm you. There's a good likelihood that the reason you stick around is that you don't value yourself enough to walk away. Make the choice. . . Which is more important, him or maintaining your dignity and self-worth? (I'd say the latter.)
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maybe you could keep thinking he'll do bad things to you like abuse you or cheat on you. Now that feels worse, right?
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