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Well, I have 2 very close friends, they mean a lot to me. We have known eachother for about three years thats a long time in this school. This new girl came in January and we clicked and, now we hang out a lot. Plus when you first come to this school it's really hard in the bigining , moving away from you family, and your past, So she needs someone. I think that my 2 close friends are starting to get irritated. I still talk to them a lot, just not as much as i used to. What should i do to be able to spend time with all of them, and not get anyone mad?
Unfortunately, there are no easy answers. If your new friend and your old friends don't get along, you're just going to have to juggle your time so that you see everyone separately. Unfortunately, your old friends may end up feeling slighted in the process. I've been in similar situations, but I never did find a satisfactory solution for all concerned. Just try to be as fair as you can, while understanding that sometimes you just can't make everybody happy.
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maybe you could get them to know eachother better, maybe do something all of the 4 of you. friends are never enough and the new girl would feel even more welcome and your other friends would meet a new friend...
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Thankx, yea i told my friends that she's real cool. now there starting to like her and things are going better. Well, they still don't agree with her punk side but, they'll get over it.
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