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i have met a girl online ,we have chated for about 4 months,she said she love me,i love her.but i am a Chinese and i am in China now,she said that she would go to China next year after she graduate.she will go to China to teach English.but last night when we first talk about sex,she knows so much about sex,e.g position,doggy style...and she told me that she know that from the a website,i visited the website there are many pornpics.
I am afraid that she is not a virgin now,but she told me she's a virgin.she will give her virgin to me.what should i do now?

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Virginity is more a state of mind than a physical condition. You might wish to read our article Magical Cups, Bloody Brides which discusses this.

On a personal note, I would be wary of any on-line relationship until you meet the other person in real life.

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Also, let's keep in mind that there is much more to sex than simply knowing positions. Not to mention that porn sites are not generally educational or objective places to learn about sex.
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