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Hey scarleteen! I think this site is awesome! I would just like to know a few questions but I guess the others can wait...So this one guy I have been hanging out with for the past week really likes me and says any guy would want to go out with me. But he also told me that him and a lot of his friends think that I am a lesbian. The only reason why they say that is because I don't like kissing boys...I know that sounds crazy but I just don't get fired up when I swop spit. But I swear that I'm not a lesbian. Now I'm confused because of what he said. Am I a wimp for not wanting to kiss boys? Or is this normal. I'm 15 years old by the way.
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The way you feel about guys is compltly your bussiness if you dont get fired up by kissing then thats ok everyone is different and everyone likes different things.This guy has no right to make you worry about these things and you shouldnt feel pressured about it or be pressured into anything you dont want to do.Just be you and be happy
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At one point, it was believed that women could orgasm either from clitoral or vaginal stimulation (and that the two types of orgasm were very different), and that women who orgasmed from clitoral stimulation were still immature, and would eventually grow into the more mature vaginal orgasm. Sound freaky? It's actually been treated as fact, and I really, I think it makes about as much sense as your unfondmess for kissing being immature. Hey, af fifteen, I had no interest in kissing anyone, and it wasn't because I oppoed kissing, it was just because there was no one around me that I wanted to be that intimate with. Whether you're not into kissing, or not into those boys, it sounds perfectly normal to me, and really, how does not liking kissing make you a lesbian? That's really bizarre reasoning.
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