my boyfriend and i had a row yesterday because he said that i wasnt his first choice. he says that no one gets their forst choice. i think this is wrong, as he is definitly my no1, and i cant imagine wanting anyone else. it also turns out that he is "obsessed" (his words) with another girl. is this ok? should i be more worried about that than if he was obsessed with a celebrity? we both know that the other girl definitly doesnt like him. am i asking too much for him to just want me? i know that he would never cheat, or hurt me.
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Oh honey, listen to me when I say that this guy is *not* worth your time or effort. For him to actually say that you aren't his "first choice" is mean-spirited, and just plain assonine.
For the record, we date people, and have relationships with them, because we *care* about them. For him to say, essentially, that while you aren't his first choice, but are fine for the time-being is just plain rude.
Ditch this one, because there are plenty of real men who *will* have you as their "first choice" because of the neat person you are!
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