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HotGurl69
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IT ALL STARTED WHEN I MET THIS BOY AND WE WERE GOING TOGETHER. EVERYTHING WAS GOOD. WE NEVER HAD SEX BECAUSE IT WASN'T THAT IMPORANT. ANYWAY, HE TREATED ME LIKE A QUEEN. HIS PERSONALITY WAS EXCELLENT. HE WAS THE GUY I ALWAYS WANTED TO BE WITH. WHEN I STARTED CALLING AT NIGHT, HIS AUNTS WILL TELL ME HE WASN'T THERE. THIS WAS GOING ON EVERY NIGHT. SO I DECIDED TO STOP CALLING HIM. 5 MONTHS WENT BY I HAVEN'T SEEN OR SPOKE TO HIM. SO AFTER THE 5 MONTHS WENT BY, ONE NIGHT I HAD THIS CRAZY DREAM ABOUT HIM. THE NEXT DAY I HAD CALLED HIM. AND WE TALKED. EVER SINCE THAT I HAVEN'T CALLED HIM. THEN ONE DAY MY COUSIN WAS PUTTING UP SHADES FOR THE PARTY. SHE HAPPEN TO LOOK OUT THE WINDOW AND THERE HE WAS COMING TO MY HOUSE. AT FIRST I THOUGHT MY COUSIN WAS LYING. SO I WENT TO GO OPEN THE DOOR HE WAS THERE. WE GOT BACK TOGETHER AND IT WAS A DISASTER. HE WAS NEVER THERE. WHEN WE GOT BACK TOGETHER AGAIN WE WAS TOGETHER FOR A YEAR. IT SEEMS HE WAS CHEATING ON ME. THE WORST PART ABOUT THIS HE SAID HE WAS BE THERE ON MY BIRTHDAY AND HE WASN'T. I WAS REALLY HURT BECAUSE I WASTED A YEAR FOR NOTHING. STILL TO THIS DAY I DON'T UNDERSTAND WHAT HAPPENED TO US? WAS I TOO MUCH OF A NICE PERSON? HE CAME BACK AND DESTROYED ALL THE LOVE I HAD INSIDE. IN MY SITUATION, DO YOU THINK I SHOULD TRY TO GET INTO ANOTHER RELATIONSHIP.

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ONE LOVE,
ARIEL


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-Jill
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I can't tell you what happened in your first relationship - there are all kinds of possibilities. However, I can tell you that only you know what's right for you right now. Perhaps taking a break from relationships would give a little perspective or some time to grow as a person. On the other hand a new relationship might teach you some new relationship skills or rebuild your confidence in your ability to have a healthy relationship.

It's important to keep in mind that none of the above is guaranteed to happen, they're just possibilities; there are many, many other possibilities too.

No one can "destroy all the love you have inside." You will be able to love again, however it may take some time. Just like any wound, emotional hurts take time to heal.

Oh, and could you please not post in all caps. The caps are interpreted as yelling and can get annoying when not used in moderation.


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