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Kasper
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Obvisouly I have some sort of poblem with trust guess. I trust my bf completely. But I dnt trust other girls with him. Well everyone tells me that if I trust my bf, should not worry about these other girls. ButI do. He does not hang out with girls. He just talks to a few from high school online, and if he bumps into them, then he will talk to them. I tell him if he cheats on me Id kill him (not seriously). I hate to bring it up, cuz I know he would take it offensvely i I even think he would do something on me. Umm any ideas on how to trust or something. Thanks
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somewhatanonymous
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If you can't feel like you can trust your partner to be monagamous even when you have no logical reason to believe that he might cheat on you it might be best to look at yourself. It's common to subconciously place the blame for our own short-commings on others. If you are afraid that your boyfriend might cheat on you it might be because you think you might cheat on him if you were in his situation.
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Alaska_boy
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I agree with SomeWhat. it sounds to me like the trust issue is all in you. maybe you and your b/f should speak to each other about it.
Communication is the key to all relationship's.
-AB

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