My now fiance and i were really good friends(we've known each other since 6th grade). One day we were sitting in my dorm room on the floor, with noone else there, watching TV. then suddenly before i knew it we were both kissing each other like crazy...after about 10 min. of INTENSE kissing were in the bed having sex! after about 2 months of going out he proposed and i said yes! do yu think we're rushing into things too quick??
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Well it really doesnt matter what we feel, we arent in this relationship. Its how you and your boyfriend feel. If you have doubts or feel that you have moved to quickly, you should talk to your boyfriend. Thats the best thing you can do.
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The fact that you are questioning if you are moving too fast possibly indicates that you are, but only you know the answer to that question.
Why not consider a handfasting? A handfasting is a very serious - but not legally binding - ceremony that binds two people for a year and a day. If after that time you choose to continue your commitment, then you could plan your wedding. If it wasn't what you wanted, you simply have another ceremony and the bond is terminated.
Handfastings can be performed by religious practitioners (priests, rabbis, whatever), by pagan practitioners, or by a friend or whoever you'd like.
And yes, you get to be "husband" and "wife" if that's what you choose.
It is used in pagan and wiccan weddings, but also can form a more traditional wedding if that's what you want. Do a Google search for more info [ ]
Yes, it sure is... because it's a non-legal ceremony, you can get information on the net, design your own vows and ceremony, and do it anywhere, anyhow, with anyone conducting the ceremony you want.
I have friends who did a great big Pagan wedding with a ritual circle and 200 people in a forest and a witch doing the ceremony. I have friends who did it themselves in their livingroom, with nobody conducting. I also know a couple who did it with the whole big "white wedding" thing in a church with a priest, so...
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