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Well as u can tell from the subject, Yep i got rejected again, am i surprised ? no i'm not. Am i hurt/upset Yeah course i am because i honestly thought she would say yes man how wrong i was.

I can't seem to work out why this keeps happening i'm sure fron just reading this post i can tell i'm a little angry too, i'm not angry with the girls that have rejected me, some girl say they don't want to break my heart......but thing is i've been rejected that many time and had my heart broken that many time that there nothing left of it to break.

i'm trying really hard to stay posative but it SOOO hard

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Hon, this kind of thing happens to everyone.

The best thing to do right now is maybe to concentrate on something other than girls. Focus yourself on something you're really interested in and go out lots. Meet new people and enjoy yourself without being on the prowl for a girlfriend. Participating in group activities that interest you is a great way to meet new people and then maybe you'll find someone you'll hit it off with. But don't go out looking for a girlfriend.

Smile, though your heart is breaking....

My crazy little universe....

"Whatever tomorrow brings I'll be there....
With open arms and open eyes...."


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I'm with Cypher. Kev, I was actually thinking of suggesting to you that maybe you should set a period of time, say six months, where you tell yourself that you WON'T ask a girl out on a date (so still ask your female friends to get a drink or see a movie or something, just don't aim for romance), and use that time to work out where you're going in life etc. I think you'll find that not concentrating on finding love will make a huge difference to you.
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