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i have a lover over the internet. we are engaged but we have never met. we are both in love with each other. we have been to gether for 2 mounths and counting. we beleive that we are made for eachother. we have made plans to meet. we have had cyber sex many times but i swore to my self that i won't get my self off but he does it evrytime.

All i need is n-e ones advice for this situation. pleze help me out.


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Flatly, I'd have to be frank and say that engagements for life partnerships without ever having spent time together in person aren't something I would ever advise. same goes for engagements after only two months of knowing one another in person, let alone online.

Real life day-to-day life and online relationships are apples and oranges. One may lead to another, but it's a WORLD of difference.

I'm not sure at all what you're asking for advice on, exactly. if you're asking if I think this is a sure thing, then no. I'd say not, and I'd also suggest you start injecting some reality into the equation. If you're asking why you have made limits with cybersex, only you know that. I'm not a mind-reader, sweetie.

I'm going to close this here and move it to Relationships for you for more input.

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