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"face" being the keyword here.

I recently told my crush how i felt about her... lemme copy and paste:

JenaSuperStar: can i tell you the truth
Natsadork2: huh??
JenaSuperStar: ive liked you for a while... and i didn't wanna get into anything.... because i didn't wanna get hurt.. because maybe you'd not wanna be with me
JenaSuperStar: so i just never say how i feel
JenaSuperStar: but the truth is.. i'd risk getting hurt.... only if it was with you
Natsadork2: < gasps
Natsadork2: jena!!!!!!!!!!
JenaSuperStar: yes...
Natsadork2: um..........................
Natsadork2: nat still surprised
JenaSuperStar: me too
JenaSuperStar: i never tell pple that much info about my feelings
Natsadork2: neither do i
Natsadork2: nat keeps everything bottled up
JenaSuperStar: me too
JenaSuperStar: that's the only way i know i wont get hurt.... but it still hurts
Natsadork2: im know...nat hears you
Natsadork2: *i

*20 minutes later*

Natsadork2: jena!!!! i'd rather like talk about this in person
JenaSuperStar: me too

So maybe tomorrow we're gonna talk about it.

I've never felt this way about anyone..... I just thought I'd like to share.

I'll post whether or not she and i are getting together.

I need advice. If she doesn't want to get together, what should i say??


"Cos I used to be a superhero... no one could touch me, yeah not even myself.... you were like a phone booth that i somehow stumbled into... now look at me I am just like everybody else!!!"

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Say whats on your mind and in your heart. I mean thats the best I can tell you to do.

It does sound like to me you both are on the same page. It seems like things will work out fine. Good Luck, and keep us posted!


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I don't think that she would want to talk to you in person just to shoot you down. That's be very shammy, and I don't think you'd like such a shammy person.

However, good luck to you!!! It's so cute that she talkes in third person

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First off: good luck!

Second: Don't overthink this whole thing before it happens. Just relax and go with the flow, so to speak. When the time comes, tell her how you feel and be honest and open.

Smile, though your heart is breaking....

My crazy little universe....

"Whatever tomorrow brings I'll be there....
With open arms and open eyes...."


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