this is slightly more complicated than the title says. Okay, so this guy (we'll call him "Rob") and i have been friends for a while. A little while ago he told me that he was undecided about who he liked, and the choices were btween me and this other girl. He decided eventually he liked me. So for about a week after that we called eachother and talked, and did the usual new couple stuff. However, he never actually made an attachment to me (we weren't boyfriend /girlfriend etc). A little while later, I introduced him to one of my friends ("Rachel") he had talked online with before. I hung out with both of them for a day, then had to go on a weeklong vacation. When I got back, I heard that Rachel had brought a bunch of friends to Rob's house, and that her and Rob had talked on the phone and talked a lot. Yesterday I went walking around with her and Rob and 2 other friends, and Rob totally flirted with her. I have observed him in flirting action, so I know his tactics He claims not to like her, but every time i talk to him he asks if she's home or if I know where she is. Now I am probably acting like some jealous ex-girlfriend but i am really curiosu as to what the heck is going on! I would really appreciate it if someone more experianced could decipher this~thanx!
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hey i think that you are thinking to much about it, if they say that nothing is going on. they could just be friends, that enjoy the time together and have a lot of things in common. i have a lot of guys that are just friends but people think that it is more then that but it really isn't at all. maybe you could ask them about it again, in a week or so and see if their feelings are the same or have changed, also if you are a lot like "rachel" then maybe when you were gone then "rob" wanted someone to hang out with like you! hope i helped a little at least!
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Ouchies.... This has happened to me before too. But I'm afraid if Rob likes Rachel, theres really not much you can do about it. And if things do get further with Rob and Rachel, do NOT, I repeat DO NOT attempt to break them up....you'll only have 2 less friends later on. I learnt that from experience.
Hey i know who u feel, it happened to me, just talk to your friend and ask her whats going on if your not sure if u believe this guy, i duno good luck
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