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WoAh69
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alright my crushes name is jason and he has a cousin named phil. phil is like my brother and he says i am his lil sister. tonight on the fone he was talking about me sucking his dick and i avoided it then he was like only if you were older and then sed i was beautiful and i was like yeh right then he goes ask jason i talk about you alot your cute. i about died i had a crush on him like along time ago. he is 19 a i am almost 15 and he talkin all dirty and it sorta makes me feel werid cuz its my crushes cousin what should i do i can't tell him it's bothering me i am shy!! HELP! HELP!
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Lin
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You know hon, being shy does not mean you can let people step all over you.

If such a conversation ever comes up again, very firmly say "I do not like where this conversation is going and I would appreciate it if you stopped this right now."

And if he doesn't, then just hang up on him. Honestly, it doesn't sound like this guy is treating you with even the slightest bit of respect. I think you are better off not hanging out with him.

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I completely agree with Lin. You can't let him walk all over you. If you're not comfortable with the discussion, then open your mouth and say so or just hang up on him. Remember that you've got as much right as he does to decide what to talk about, you've got the power to make those discussions stop if you're not comfortable with them. Exercise that power!

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I definitely wouldn't like to have Phil as a brother. A good friend would never make you feel weird and uncomfortable. And he talks to you in a very sexual way, and I don't think it's right to do that when you're not comfortable with it. Like the others said, tell him to stop. Being shy has nothing to do with it. If you're not comfortable with something, it's the one time where shyness should not stand in the way.

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WoAh69
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thanx for what you wrote, but it's not like he walks all over me cuz he doesn't know it bothers me, i told jason last night on the fone that wht he sed really bugge me. jason understood howi fet. see ya think he wouldcare but he's nt mine,i have just like im for like 7 months thank you for your replies
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