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Gameman
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Well, if me again, I want to give a letter to that girl, but I don't have courage to give it to her, so I decide to put it in the newspaper, since she always go to get my newspaper to read. Do you think if it will going to work or not.
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Lin
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Is she the only one who picks up the newspaper? If not, you run the risk of having other people read your letter as well.

I think you should just take a deep breath, go up to her, hand her the letter and walk off. It's up to her from then on.

And hon, we would really appreciate it if you could post in your previous thread because opening too many new threads simply wastes bandwith.


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Gameman
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Well
Yes, she is the only one to pick it up.

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Lin
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Personally, I think I would prefer it if the person came up to me and handed me the letter. It just seems more sincere but if you really think you might literally freeze upon seeing her and not get to hand her the letter at all, I don't see any harm in putting the letter in the newspaper.

Make sure the letter won't drop out of the newspaper when she picks it up though. Gd luck


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Siren
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If you can't actually give it to her in person, putting it in the newspaper might work. But if you can, it is always best to just go up to her and give it to her. She's gonna know it's from you either way. And giving something to someone personally is always the best way to go, in my opinion. I know it's hard, but we've all been in your shoes in one way or another, and after you do it you'll think....."that wasn't so bad!"

So, just think about that. But if you still can't, the newspaper sounds like it will work! Good luck!

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Sallynha
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It would be a good surprise if she found it in her mailbox too If you know her address or can manage to get it, it's another alternative

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