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DC_WillowFan
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Hey !
I hope you don't mind to help me on this one.

If you read the post "Love, Friends and Shyness" on the "It's all about you" board you'll understand what I'm talking about.

Briefly(spell.?), there a friend of mine who I think was interested in me last year during high school. She's still single but I don't see her too much these days as we go to diff. colleges. In fact, back then I was interested in another girl but now I'd like to have a try with her because I guess I feel something for her.

BUT, I dunno if I really love her or if I want her to love me. I know it's 2 different things but still I'm confused about that one.

Thanks !
David

P.S.: If LilBlueSmurf is the first to reply to this, she's really the best at answering to my posts because she always do in a great way. Thanks LilBlueSmurf !

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Heather
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Enter her royal Smurfiness....

(Isn't she wonderful?)


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LilBlueSmurf
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First of all, I must say you're going about this the right way by even asking that question; Am i really looking for A relationship or just ANY relationship. That is really a very big difference.

Everyone wants to feel loved. It's just in our nature. It's nice to know that you're cared for and someone shares the same feelings for you. Leaves ya feeling kinda warm and tingly

Talk to her, make the connection. It's a start. Tell her you miss her company and would like to get to know her again. People change. You might not even like what you see. But you won't know until you try

Best of luck sweetie ... and thx for the kind words


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Lin
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I agree with the wonderful blue one.

Just renew your friendship and take things slow. Get to know her even better and decide if you want to pursue a relationship with her.

And I think you can answer your question on whether you want to be loved or if you really love her when the friendship grows deeper. Gd luck.


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LilBlueSmurf
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Aww ... I feel so loved !!
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DC_WillowFan
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She's really wonderful Muz Scarlet and you're too.

For the topic, yeah I'll try to see her again some day soon but I'm just so busy and she is also. But still I'll surely have to get to know her again because people really change as you said LilBlueSmurf.

Still, I talked with you so you know what I think and for everyone else, I think (myself and it's only a thought) thay I might belong to the second category as I have been looking so badly for love on those last 2 years.

Anyway, thanks Lin and LilBlueSmurf
David

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- I hope I shall be able to confide in you conpletely, as I have never been able to do in anyone before, and I hope that you will be a great support and comfort to me.

Anne Frank to her journal
(1929-1945)


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