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i was just wondering... if you had to choose between a totally awesome personality on a not so hot mate, or just a plain dull personality on a *MAJORbabe* ...what would you choose.

my guy isn't the hottest guy alive, but he has the greatest personality on a person, that i have ever met.

Thanks 4 ur time!

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Depends. If you're looking for a one night stand.......

However, if you are planning to live the rest of your life with another person and possibly share the responsibilities of raising children, it had better be with someone you can stand over the long haul.

"A free society is a place where it's safe to be unpopular."

- Adlai Stevenson

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Personality!!! That is what I swear by when I look for friends. Some of the women I have dated were certainly not models, but they were funny and smart, and I absolutely adored that about them.

Besides, I know I'm not exactly a studly-looking guy myself...but I attempt to make my girlfriend laugh every now and then, which I think is why she still speaks to me after 3 and a half years.

And as for Sonia? Well, I just got lucky with her. It isn't every day you find such a great personality in such a gorgeous woman...


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Personality is very important.
I may look at somebody differently then their significant other would, but that doesn't mean that they aren't attractive. It's all a matter of opinion.

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Gotta have the personality. I mean, looks matter about 1% of the time. If you love the person's personality, they seem more and more attractive every day. I've went out with really good looking guys before who have really crappy personalities, and truthfully I couldn't stand them by the end of the relationship. Which goes to prove that no matter how good looking a person is, the relationship isn't going to last if you don't love who they are on the inside.

Anyway, If I found a perfectly average or below average looking guy who was mature, funny, intelligent, and treated me good, then I wouldn't even care what they looked like. They would still seem beautiful to me.

Come check out what's goin on in Lucky's mind!

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Definatly personality. No hesitation, if he doesn't have a mind, then what's the point?

"A six foot tall anorexic bimbo,with plastic breasts is making me feel weird about my own body."
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Personality, no doubt about it.

There's only so much time I can spend looking at my guy's face before we break up.

And my guy will always be the most gorgeous one in the world even though not everyone thinks so. So guess what, I have the best of both worlds. *lol*

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I'd choose the awesome personality, no doubt about it.

To tell you the truth, I've known some guys who when I first met them didn't think they were that good looking. And then I'd spend time getting to know and realize how great they were as a person, and I'd end up thinking they were just the cutest!

Lil Siren

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if you're planning on marrying the good looking guy and growing old with him, you've gotta know that good looks dont last as long as a good personality.

go for the personality, looks are only skin deep, but a good personality goes on forever.

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What's wrong with you guys?! Looks, all the way, man!

Just kidding But who's seriously going to admit to that?

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What kind of question is this? Personality! Beauty comes within, and if you can see how wonderful they are inside, then beauty starts to show on the outside. Know what I mean?
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PERSONALITY!!! My ex had the most wonderful personality matched with not so great looks. However, I found him quite attractive because I knew how he really was. Looks only last so long while personality lives on forever.
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