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hornygrl
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I know I posted this in Sex Basics and Health but it was deleted. So I'll post this here.

I'm a white female who's attracted to white males but there's this one guy who's asian and he is good looking ! He has short hair, a very fit body, a nice butt, natural tan skin, an average height ( 5'6"-5'7" ), and a sincere personality.

I don't know why I'm attracted to him but he looks so good. Have some of you experienced this before even if you found someone of your race more attractive than the others ?

GOsh ! He's a hotty !

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Ella
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I don't see why you don't know why you'd be attracted to him. He sounds like a great guy. Race shouldn't matter in whether you like someone or not. Personally I like a person, not a skin tone. I don't see why in the world it would matter to you that he isn't white.

Here are a couple of topics about interracial relationships if you're interested, here it is:
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum3/HTML/000836.html
http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/Forum9/HTML/000005.html

[This message has been edited by Ella (edited 02-26-2001).]


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Pixie69
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Well I'm attracted to personalities But if you're asking who I think is cute...well just about everyone. I know some girls that don't really go for certain guys (like I have a friend who thinks white guys look funny... dunno, she's kind of strange) but I've found that I've liked a lot of dfferent kinds of guys. Asian, black, white, mexican, martian, any mix of anything and I'm sure I've thought SOMEONE lke that was cute....

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hornygrl
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thank you elle and pixie !

I grew up with mostly the white majority. Before, when I saw someone of another race different from mine, I didn't feel attracted to them. But right now, I do.

I think it has to do with environment. Well, ciao !

and this asian guy has a buff chest and broad shoulders. He's not geeky like the other asians I see in my university, he's just WOO HOO !

hornygrl


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Heather
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quote:
Originally posted by hornygrl:
this asian guy has a buff chest and broad shoulders. He's not geeky like the other asians I see

Horny, comments like this I think we all can live without, and I'd prefer they not be at our boards. They're neither inclusive nor kind, and they don't create a comfortable environment for everyone here.

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hornygrl
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I'm sorry. I don't want to create a very uncomfy environment here. I'm not prejudice but I guess it's my background that affects me a lot.

I'm starting to love myself and people different from me. Whether black or asian or white or brown or yellow , I don't care anymore.

Forgive me for being so naive on this board.

hornygrl


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Sourgirl1986
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Guys of all races and ethnic backgrounds are cute... Like my parents raised me to only date white guys, but I like all guys! And it makes them so mad, but I don't care... It's my choice!!!

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Lin
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Well, as long as no one says that Asians are exotic.

I live in a multi racial society so inter racial relationships are really quite common.

And boy, I can't start to count the number of non Chinese guys I find cute.


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Gumdrop Girl
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hey Lin, when someone says "you're one in a million," they're really saying "there's a thousand of you in China." yeah, so much for asians being exotic when they're about half the world's population.

any male that goes to the gym regularly can be buff. white, black, yellow, brown, red, green, or orange with little purple spots. buff comes in all colors

interracial relationships are nothing new. i'm in one. i'm quite happy with it.

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Shadow Stalker
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While some of the more liberal people may have a problem with her statement, I don't. She was simply stating the features that she found most attractive on males were not normally on chinese guys, henceforth to have one with them is a surprise. At least, that's my understanding of her statement.

I for one normally don't find girls of other races that attractive... For whatever reason I just find a greater amount of white girls attractive. Some Japanese and Black girls are cute, but honest to god, finding a cute chinese girl is really hard!


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Lin
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Maybe going to China will help, Shadow Stalker.

quote:
He has short hair, a very fit body, a nice butt, natural tan skin, an average height ( 5'6"-5'7" ), and a sincere personality.

I never knew that it was so hard to find an Asian guy who fits this description. As Gumdrop said, asians form almost half the world's population.


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Heather
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Again, it isn't about being "liberal," it is about being inclusive on these boards.

PLEASE leave the racial stereotypes and generalizations off this board. This just isn't a good place for them, and without them, we have an environment where everyone can feel more included, no matter what color, size or shape they are.

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