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Uss69
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What is a good kind of flower to give a girl on a first date(and a belated Valentines present)? I was thinking of getting her 1/2 dosen roses 2 red 2 white and 2 yellow. Or should I go with a different kind? or does it not matter at all?
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Well...did you want to get her roses..or did you want to get her a different type of flower? Cause I've always advice my brother, whenever he goes on a first date, to get something light-like daisies or a gerber carnations. A bunch of those with some green leaves will look modern and beautiful! To me, roses come on a bit strong..ek ek ek. But it's all up to you . Now...if your mind is set on just getting her roses...I think the whole mixing and mashing is a good idea...red meaning passion, yelow meaning friendship, and i forgot what white means..hehee...But the best thing to do is go to the flower shop, have the lady pull out the different color of roses, bunch it up quickly, and show them to you, if it looks just too tackie, go for the original red roses. WHATEVER you do--DO NOT GET A DOZEN roses...they JUST looook WAAAAAY toooo BIG! (and ugly-eww) hehee...(BTW: my mom is a florist, so I know this stuff..hehee)

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Personally, I find roses on a first date to be too scary. I'm with Karina in that I'd go for something lighter, like daisies, carnations, or some kind of lily (not Easter lily things; there are smaller ones). But maybe I'm just shy that way. If someone acts too serious towards me right away, I tend to run screaming. Anyhow, if you buy them at a florist you can ask for help and advice...usually they're good at that.
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i like the daisies idea. i think carnations are tacky... i don't know... but daisies are definitely cool!

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I think one white rose is nice for a first dat. A white rose symbolizes friendship...or it is pink? Snaps I forgot.

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Yellow roses traditionally mean jealousy
Red is a passionate love.. white is a pure love, pink is friendship.

I'd say go for something a little more subtle, if you're worried about giving her the wrong ideas! Daisies are cute and fun, lillies are elegant..

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here ya go, three excellent resources for what flowers really mean:
Romance 101
Centennial
Katrina May

entropie

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I knew that....

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Those links are really interesting! I agree that something light like daisy's would be cool.

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irises. pretty. (and cheap!)

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I wouldn't mind daisies. They are so cheery, so happy.

Lilies seem to be the 'in' thing to give this year. Everyone was holding a bunch of lilies. It was either that or paper flowers.

I'm a rose person. I go ga-ga when my boy buys me roses.


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I'd go with a single rose if you're interested in Roses. a. it's a lot cheaper, b. it's not intimidating, c. it's beautiful.

Or go for some of the other flower options. They're lovely too!
have fun on the date


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