Ok, today my b/f that I oh so devoted myself to just called me young, inexperienced and said that I can't kiss,.. its a spanish song,.. he sung it to me,.. needless to say I was quite hurt. now, he is a little older and more experienced than I but he knows of my insecurities,.. what am I supposed to do? can some people give me a few tips,.. I want to surprise him when I see him this week,. thanks,.. *~*lylajane*~* Posts: 2 | From: NJ | Registered: Feb 2001
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If you really want to surprise him, go tell him to go find a more mature, more experienced girlfriend that likes it when he exploits her insecurities. I think that'll a funny surprise.
I have no idea why I'm even responding because I don't have any positive advice to give you (as in how to please him). Don't go buy Hot Secrets to Kissing: Tips to Stop His Mean, Insensitive Comments. If you really want to solve "your" problems, talk to him. That's all I can say. I'd rather go for the funny surprise though.
I would agree with everyone else to leave him. If kissing is all that matters to him, why should you limit yourself that way? Find a guy who will see you as a whole person. Keep Smiling
Posts: 286 | From: Ames, IA | Registered: Jan 2001
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quote:Originally posted by lylajane: No, but I was wondering about a few better kissing tips,.. anyone got any?? *~*lylajane*~*
Only the same answer we give to any questions like that.
Everybody is different. People like different things. Some other guy might love the way you kiss and think that your current boyfriend is totally wrong in his opinion. I have kissed folks with whom I am "kissing compatible" and folks with whom I am not. It just depends on the individuals involved.
That said, if you think this guy is worth it (and from your brief description, is he?) the two of you can learn to kiss better with each other. This takes communication, though, and it sounds like maybe you two aren't doing so well on that score if he's putting you down and you're feeling insecure. Anyhow, getting more compatible takes a combination of talking about what you each like in kissing and (the fun part) *practice*. Pay attention to what he likes and what he does. Don't forget, though, he needs to do the same for you. It's not a one-way street.
And if it doesn't work out, remember, there are other fish in the sea, and some of them are just your style of kissers!
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