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KevMezz
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Ok in my last post I mentioned a girl who I really like and still do so I took someones advice and forgot about asking her out and just talked to her like friends. Anyway she keeps looking at me when ever I pass (or maybe it's me looking at her) When I was in the computer room today she said to me "one of your friend thinks I fancy you"

I didn't know what to do so I just said "oh right" and I wish I had asked her if it was true and if it is I think she maybe scared to ask me because of what others think of me because I'm not a guy that girls talk about (I don't think so anyway) and maybe she is scared in case I turn her down.

Of course I'm probably hoping for too much and she probably only likes me as a friend, but I would like to ask her if she does like me but I am also scared of ruining the (small) friendship we have and making things arkward for both me and her but I still would like to know and maybe she wants me to ask.

WHAT AM I TO DO ANY IDEAS?

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Kevmezz


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ErinK
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Keep being her friend. See what happens.
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hey kev,
i think she likes u.. see some girls do that when they can't ask the guys out, they give hints..
why don't u ask her? u don't have to ask "do u wanna go out straight".. but u know "wanna watch movie".. or soemthing..
cool? good luck
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KevMezz
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I wounldn't know what to say to her and I don't even know if she does like me. I'm not worried about being turned down it's just that word travels fast round college, But I do like her I was thinking of sending her a e-mail asking if she does like me but again I don't know what to write
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Hanne
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Here's an idea, Kev --

"Hey there -- you took me by surprise the other day, so I wanted to say hi when I wasn't in a rush. Would you like to join me for a cup of coffee sometime? I've seen you around the computer lab a lot, but we never seem to get a chance to hang out and chat. Your thoughts?"

Simple, sweet, conversational, friendly, not putting anyone on the spot... why not?

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KevMezz
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We already know each other, she's in my class and she talks to me, we get on well we send e-cards to each other and that when I thought she might like me. Sometime I think she flirting with me but not so sure. My friends don't like her but i don't care what they think.

When I sat next to her in the computer room she was showing me a cartoon on the net, then all of a sudden she said "Ben thinks I like you" I just said "oh righ" She didn't say if she does or not.

I just don't know what to do but I don't want to lose this chance (if there is on)

in short I shy to ask a girl out....very unusual for me because I spent most of the time yapping to my friends


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Hanne
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Honey, if you hang out, are sending e-cards to each other, and she made that comment to you, then yes, she likes you. She's probably wondering when you're going to pick up on it. So ask her out already. I'd bet you my flying pegasus cat cookie jar she'll say yes.

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He-he.....Ok if she says no then you owe me that cookie jar....just kidding ok I'll give it a go nothin to lose i guess
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I'm the blunt type, myself. Since she got you out of the blue, in your spot I'd probably respond the same way (maybe by e-mail if you're too nervous to do it in person). Something like, "So, do you fancy me? Want to go out for a movie sometime?"
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