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Manda, have you discussed this with your partner? It's perfectly normal for him to have platonic girl friends but it's also normal to be a bit jealous. Why not tell him how you're feeling and discuss what the two of you can do to make you feel a bit better about things. I'm sure you can strike a balance if you communicate.
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Yea your right but this chick is all like wanting to be his roomate next year and stuff, i dunno what she is thinking buti really love him and like every time i talk to him i think about it constanly i know i am way overdramatising this but i dunno but i'll talk to him and see what we can do so thanks for that advice! sorry i didnt know i posted twice i thought the first one didnt show up! never do it again

Love Manda

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hey! well ive been in a long distance relationship for almost 2 years now.. its very hard, but we've made it this far, lol. we r straight up about everything, if one of us mess around w/ someone else the other one is the first to know. long distance can work, u just have to always tell the truth and have faith that ur mate loves u!! good luck!!
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I've been in A long-distance relationship now going on 6 weeks. I love it and hate it at the same time. I miss him alot, but it's nice not to be in a sense tied down. A nice break. I get to see him in December after almost 8 months of being apart. From there will go in yet another long distance relationship alot closer to each other, 2 1/2 hours away vise a 24hr flight. Where totally looking forward to being closer to each other and being able to see each other more often.
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ok.... i need help from all u LDR pros. I'm new at this (as in never ever done it before) so here goes: We were together for 10 months before he moved across the country to New York (3000 miles =(. He's been gone for 7 weeks (I know, its not that long, but we're just starting out) and it's been pretty awful. I get mad at the stupidest things (him dancing with his good girl friend or hugging a friend for example) but I can't stop myself. It makes me so angry that he's doing stuff over there that he wouldn't do if he was here. I mean I'm probably doing the same things but its different because I KNOW what I'm doing harmless and no matter how much he tells me what he does is harmless, I can't beleive it. How do I get over it? He's coming home next weekend and we're hoping that seeing eachother will help us remember why we're in this. We've put a lot of weight on this weekend so I'm worried that things will be stressful. what can I do? please give me some advice if you have some! thanks
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Hey, I'm in a new relationship, though it's been a couple months, but I've actually been with him physically for about 5 days.. But he's in the navy and is out on a ship for 7 months. The only communication we have is email, and he writes when he can, but that sometimes could be once every couple of weeks. Since I've only seen him about a week 1/2 before he left, we haven't had sex or anything. But I actually realized how hard it is! Since also this is my first actual relationship, and it just sucks. But I trust him, and I've opened up to him alot. So I forgot exactly why I decided to post...but hopefully this whole thing will work out in the end!
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