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Helpful27
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Right now mine is "Listen. We gotta talk."
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Heather
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"Do you have a lawyer?"
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HA HA.....GOOD ONE MIZ S.!!
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"Goodbye" or "I'm having second thoughts"
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it's not you, it's me.

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"I'll never forget how much you hurt by leaving, or maybe how much i hurt myself fot staying"


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bizob
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"are you ok?"
"is something wrong?"
or
"are you sure?"

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bettie
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"It is like we are married, but we are not."

And he broke up with me on the phone. It was a long time ago. I'm ok now.


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Jayjers
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"I love you too...but not in the same way"

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ktroub
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"I love you too, but more like a friend..."
"We NEED to talk"
"I think we should cool things for a while.."

Yes, those definitely ALL Suck...


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entropie
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My fave:

I say "I Love You"
He replies "Consider that emotion reciprocated"

and another:

"You're like the little sister I never had"

hehe


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Etch
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Entropie - please tell me no one has ever actually said that first one. if that really happened i think i might die laughing.
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Candy_Chica
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quote:
Originally posted by entropie:
My fave:

I say "I Love You"
He replies "Consider that emotion reciprocated"


Even worse when the answer is "ditto"

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Ophelia
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my friend went through this one:

"I see you as my little sister more than a girlfriend..."

UGH!


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Crystal_Knight
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"Let's just be friends." I hate that one and no guy ever means that. Who wants to be friends with someone they just dumped!!!
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entropie
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no kidding.. he did say it..
he was away for a few days, attending a friends funeral, and I called him on his cellphone... at the end of the conversation, AS YOU DO, I said "I love you".. and he replied "consider that emotion reciprocated".
He was in a room with his mates, and didn't want to be shamed.
I think he's just embarrassed of the fact that he feels that way
I'm never going to forget that one...

entropie


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SeeMeSwim
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"I don't want to really break up, I just want to experience other things with other people." What did he think he was doing... of course we were really breaking up. Ugh

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stillinluv
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Okay first of all i just want to say i have been in a serious relationship for over a year and i just broke it off because we just were not made to be a couple right now! however yes we have been fighting but we never did anything to eachother worst than what our own friends have done to us, so i don't see why we can't be friends still! and thats why we chose to hang out and talk all the time still with eachother! we still have feelings for each other, so i say grow up and just be friends! life is too short to hate people and hold grudges for nothing! make the best of what you guys still have left!
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Originally posted by Crystal_Knight:
"Let's just be friends." I hate that one and no guy ever means that. Who wants to be friends with someone they just dumped!!!

[This message has been edited by stillinluv (edited July 18, 2000).]


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bizob
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The "i love you like a sister" always bites.

Let's see other people, or I feel like im missing out.


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StilQuackn
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This phrase has to be the most annoying. I wrote my x-boyfriend(who was still a good friend) a letter saying I loved him. He wrote me back to say, "You're like my best friend".
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PepSi
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i would have to say the worst one would be:

Im sorry i like u but i just had sex with your friend.


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Crystal_Knight
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Every guy that tells me that they just want to be friends really doesn't mean it. I don't hate anyone. So don't assume that just because I said that, that I'm some negative person because I'm not. When a guy says that they just want to be friends to me, they never mean it. It's just a break up line. It'd be one thing if they actually meant it, but since they don't, it really sucks. I just had a guy say that he just wanted to be friends with me last week and he hasn't made the attempt to be friends with me. I'm not a person that hates everyone or a person that holds all sorts of grudges for no reason. So, Stillinluv, don't just assume that, please. Thank you...
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bizob
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I really hate it when i see people running around telling their partners that they love them when they don't. I'm not one to decide whether they do or not, but it just gets ridiculous. How could you possibly be in "total love" with every partner you come across. I see it all too much. And of course "that love is forever and always" but a month later I see them break up and they move on to the next happy customer.
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I often tell my girlfriend that she is my best friend...because she is -- so I don't really see the problem with that one. Of course, she's lots of other wonderful things to me, as well, and I acknowledge those, too. And I don't think there's anything wrong with someone replying to "I love you", with "Ditto", as long as it isn't every time. People ought to try and have some variety in things like this, I think. Anyway, my girlfriend and I are both very, very indecisive about almost everything, so, personally, I hate to hear, "You decide."
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bubbles
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my former boyfriend came up to me and just said "um i don't like you anymore, bye

i wa crushed.


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Know what I really hate? (actually happened) When you're friends with a couple and one of them decides to confide in you. "I really think it's over" and then after they try to get you to get with them, even tho you have been with the same guy for a year and you are quite content. He said "well i broke up with her for you, you knew before i broke up with her and you didn't stop me, so i think i'm entitled to at least a little something." I was horrified, just horrified. i'm still friends with the girl, but i rarely speak to the guy.
-Sweet*howl

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I hate the "we're still friends right?"
BUT they never talk to you again.

Also the "I need a break."

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aleox
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I'd most probably have to have thearpy if my boyfriend said...
"I'm gay...with your gay best friend, we're really happy together"
ARGHHHHHHH
Although my least favourite line I've heard on the phone said to me is..
Me:Is something wrong
Him:Listen, we need to talk

Gets my heart going every time!-and not for good reasons


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heres a killer...whatd u expected...fireworks??
ha ha

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No my fav one is "I love you so Much but, we cant be together because i like your Bestfriend"
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"I just don't feel it. I feel absolutely nothing for you anymore. I'm not sure I ever did." [owch]

"I just wanted to see what it was like to be with another girl. I really like you, but I can't be a lesbian, I have morals." [uhm?! You say this -after- you've "sinned". Riiiiight, you're so bloody moral.]

"I love you. As a friend. I could never love another woman like THAT. Can't we just be friends who f**k?" [Uh...that would be...No.]


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Ummm welll I dont think that we can see each other cuz ....my mother is not letting me date cuz i have some sort of cold ...
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This happened to me a while back with a guy who had told me the week before how much he felt for me and that he couldn't stop thinking about me......

Guy: "Sorry I didn't call, I was out.....I'm seeing someone now, so I was with her actually. I haven't seen her in 1 hour and 10 minutes...I hope I see her soon....(I cut in!)

Me: "But I really liked you! Didn't you know that!?"

Guy: "I'm sorry, things just happened between me and her."

Broke my heart in two. I felt like the biggest loser ever.

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"its not small, its cute."

this one was from my friend


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Breakup with first love (long-distance relationship):

Him: "I really think we should see other people."

Me: "I agree. The exclusive long-distance thing isn't working. But I still love you. And you still love me, right?"

Him: (awful silence) "Guess not. Sorry."

Breakup with second boyfriend:

(calls me at my best friend's house)

Me: "Hello?"

Him: "Is [Astarte] there, please?"

Me: "Oh, hi, Ross! Good to hear from you."

Him: "Um, [Astarte]? I don't love you any more. Sorry."

Click.

That was a classic.

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Aja Valderamma
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1) Do you think your sister likes me
2) C'mon everyones doing it... you wanna die a virgin?
3) Of course I want you for more than sex.. you give good blowjobs too.

Aja


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