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caseydanielle95
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So I had my first sexual encounter of my life with my boyfriend a month ago today. I gave him a handjob. I was fully clothed and stuff. Well yes his sperm did get on my hand. Then about 15 minutes later we got out of bed(sperm has pretty much been wiped off, no fresh sperm) and then I changed pants(never touched my underwear) to go outside and play in the rain with him. We were playing for about an hour, playing in mud, dirt, rain, etc. Then I came back inside and used the bathroom. I am like 99% positive I did not come in contact with my vagina when I wiped. I then washed my hands then washed my hair over the side of the tub. And after that, I realized that I could have possibly gotten pregnant. So for about a week after that I did not touch my vagina ever. I was so scared. I ended up getting my period that month( im always irregular) and it was lighter than usual and shorter. But it was red. I was scared it was implantation bleeding, especially since it came ten days later and lasted only 3 days. But it did come around the time it had the last month. And for a little less than 2 weeks now, my boobs have grown, i've had to get a new bra even, and they hurt all over, but the nipple does not, it is still like, numb, no feeling as it has always been. Most of my shirts look odd on me now. They hurt on all sides and underneath. And about 5 days ago, my right boob felt almost as if it was burning on the side. I've never had this problem. And my boobs have become veiny and I even have one very dark one right underneath my areola. I can no longer fit in my bikini that I wore just weeks ago. I am very very scared that this is an early sign of pregnancy. Altogether, I have taken 3 pregnancy tests, all negative. The first one I took about 2 weeks and a day after the scare, and then I took another one a few days after that. And I took my third one yesterday. I figured that If I had enough hormones to make my boobs grow, a pregnancy test would have picked it up. But it was negative. I am very very scared. Can someone help me..
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Casey: we'll need you to start with this post first, okay?

http://www.scarleteen.com/forum/ultimatebb.php?/ubb/get_topic/f/28/t/007116.html

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Well crap... [Frown]
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Let's try and come at this constructively, okay?

What do YOU need right now? What do you want to know or understand that you don't right now?

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Why I am experiencing these symptoms with my boobs. And the chance that i'm pregnant?
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Were you able to look through the link that Heather gave you? If so, what tdo you think about your chances of pregnancy based on what you read there?

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caseydanielle95
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I did, and I am sure it is very darn near impossible but, I have recently gotten scared because of my new symptoms.
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Your assessment is accurate. It really isn't possible. [Smile]

Breasts are sensitive to hormonal and other changes. Can you think of anything that has changed in your life or body over the past little while?

With a sudden change such as the one you're describing with your breasts, it's generally best to talk to a medical professional. This doesn't mean that it's a bad or serious problem, only that it's a good idea to get it looked at by someone who knows about these things and can examine you in person.

Is seeing a health care professional something that's possible for you? Do you have a regular doctor? If not, we can talk about how you can find a clinic.

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I definitely mentioned this to my mother and she says it is because I am not yet done growing, but I am concerned because I know that breasts don't just grow a cup size in 2 weeks for no reason. And they haven't grown in years. I am trying to convince her to take me to a doctor though, I am really worried.
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For many people, puberty lasts longer than it is given credit for, sometimes into someone's late teens or early twenties. So, it's certainly possible that that's what is going on here. However, it is, as you say, a very rapid growth, and, more importantly, is causing you physical discomfort and mental anxiety. For that last reason alone, seeing a doctor could well be helpful. [Smile]

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Yeah, we are scheduling an appointment tomorrow, and yeah they hurt. Mostly my right. It sometimes throbs and has somewhat of a burning sensation. I've never had this happen to me so it was very concerning to me. I really hope nothing is wrong! I've had pain for about a week or a little over, and i've noticed the growth for about 2 weeks or a little more. I first noticed the growth when I saw the veins darkening.
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I'm glad to hear you'll be scheduling an appointment. [Smile]

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