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so scared.
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I already texted the texting service, got no reply and I also read the posts regarding pregnancy.

Hi, I am terrifed as I am writing this. I am 20 years old and I have never had sex, I want to wait until marriage. I recently went to my friend's party and I hooked up with this one guy I used to like, which I totally regret. I feel incredibly guilty because now he won't speak to me. He fingered me for the first time, I do not recall any time he touched his penis where he would have gotten precum on his fingers. But ever since then (it was midnight of May 22, and the 4th day of my cycle) I have been feeling pregnancy symptoms. I tend to be a hyperchondriac but I have been constipated (I have never really been regular, though) bloated, and I haven't had much vaginal discharge but only a little bit of the creamy kind lately. Today I had diarrhea but I took a laxative last night. My vagina also feels different and I think and HOPE that I am only fooling myself into thinking I am pregnant. I am petrified because I could never have a baby at this point in my life, I have a lot going for me. I made an appointment to test tomorrow at planned parenthood for peace of mind. What are your thoughts [Frown] Thanks so so much.

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Heather
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There are no text messages unanswered right now, so I'd make sure you've been testing the correct number, okay?

If all that happened was manual sex (fingering), there was no risk of pregnancy here, only infection risks, and even those would have been low.

But for sure, if getting a test would make you feel better, I think that's a really good plan.

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so scared.
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thanks so much! im just scared my parents will somehow find out
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