I know this is a silly question to ask, but I'll admit I'm a bit of a worrier, so thought I'd put my mind at rest!!
My boyfriend and I were in the shower, and I gave him a handjob so he that he came... he washed off in the shower (just using water), and then fingered me...
I know it's indirect contact & he had washed off, but is there any chance of transference of semen into my vulva/risk of pregnancy? I'd prefer to know either way so I can put my mind at rest/do something about it before it's too late, as I know how easily I get anxious, and know that that can delay my period, making everything worse!!
It is always better to error on the side of saftey and ask. Sperm cells are very fragile and the require a lot of the fluid in semen in order to be able to swim in a to reach an ovum. They would not survive the washing or the loss of the fluid that was rinsed away by the shower running.
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