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Serpico##$&
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The other day, me and my girlfriend were messing around. There was no direct genital contact. I dry humped her. She was wearing only a pair of sweat pants and I was wearing boxers. She gave me a handjob and I ejaculated but nowhere near her vagina. Then I sort of fingered her but through the sweat pants not inside. Im scared I had traces of semen on my hand. Im not sure. Also about an hour later, she touched herself directly and im worried about if she had traces of semen on her hands from before when she did that. We wiped our hands but I fear that may not be enough. Her period was supposed to be here three days ago but its not. Im scared to death. Can you please tell me if there is a pregnancy risk here.
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Stephanie_1
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Hey Serpico##$&: Welcome to Scarleteen.

Honestly, there's not a risk here. You don't need to be worried about any sperm getting through her pants from your hands, especially after wiping them. As well, after an hour AND wiping her hands there's no risk there either.

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Thanks. I wouldnt be so worried if not for her period being late. I should have mentioned that she did ride all the way here(new mexico) from alabama in24 hoirs non stop. I dont know if that could affect it or not. By the way I forgot, you cant get pregnant from swallowing semen can you?
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No there's no direct rout from mouth to genitals, so swallowing semen poses no risk of pregnancy. Can pose a risk of STIs though, so if you're not both up to date with testing you'll want to wait about a month and do so. And sometimes periods are late, stress on the body can do that too at times (and jet lag is definitely stress on the body).

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Ok well I thank you all. Im pretty clueless about all of this and im so glad you are here to help me. Thank you so much.
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Stephanie_1
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How about taking a look through this article then, it should help you understand a little better what is and is not a risk: Pregnancy Scared? And you're very welcome [Smile]

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Ok well I thank you all. Im pretty clueless about all of this and im so glad you are here to help me. Thank you so much.
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Always glad to help [Smile]

[ 01-02-2011, 10:39 PM: Message edited by: Stephanie_1 ]

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