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Queen313
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HI I AM 19 YEARS OLD MY BOY FRIEND OF 10 MONTHS IS 23 WHEN WE GOT IN TO OUR RELATIONSHIP WE DIDNT WONT IT TO ONLY BE ALL ABOUT SEX AN IT WASNT SO WE HAVE COME TO THE POINT OF OUR RELATIONSHIP ABOUT 2 MONTHS AGO THAT WE WONTED TO START HAVING SEX NETHER OF US WERE VIRGINS WHEN WE START HAVING SEX WE BOTH WENT TOGETHER TO GO GET TESTED FOR ALL STDS AN GOT CHECKED FOR CANCER WE BOTH SAY WE LOVE EACH OTHER I REALLY DO LOVE HIM AN I DONT WONT TO LOSE HIM SO HERE COMES THE PROBLEMS PROBLEM ONE MY VAGINA LIPS THEY R REALLY BIG AN START TO SWELL 3 HOURS IN TO HAVING SEX THE TIMES WERE THEY HAVENT SWELLED PROBLEM NUMBER 2 COMES IN I HAVE NEVER HAD AN ORGASM OR CAM AS SOME PEOPLE WILL CALL IT I CANT DO IT MYSELF OR WITH HIM AN HE HAS EXPRESSED WITH ME THAT ONE OF THE THING THAT WOULD MAKE HIM HAPPY IS WHEN HE CAN SATISFIED ME IN ALL WAYS I TOLD HIM THAT WHEN WE HAVE SEX ITS GREAT TO ME OTHER THAN WHEN MY LIPS SWELL AN I KNO HES PROBLEM THINKING THEN Y CAN U GET U TO COME IVE TRY TO MAKE MY SELF CUM IVE USED OILS, SILK GLOVES, BUILT, EVEN TRYED ANAL AN IT SEEMS NOTHING WORKS IT MAKES ME SAD WHEN I THINK THAT THE MAN I LOVE IS UNHAPPY BECAUSE HE THINKS IM NOT ENJOYING SEX I LOVE HAVING SEX WITH HIM I REALLY NEED TO KNO Y AN HOW CAN I FIX THIS PROBLEM AN WHAT CAN I DO ABOUT MY LIPS I DONT WONT TO GET SURGERY DONE ON THEM AN NETHER DOSE HE I DONT KNO WHAT TO DO AN LATE LY WITH MY MOTHER STRESSING ME OUT AN EVERY THING IM STARTING TO C HIM DISTENCE HIMSELF FROM ME AN NOT WONT TO TOUCH ME OR HOLD ME AN LATELY WHEN I SAY I LOVE U HE DOSENT SAY IT BACK OR HE JUST SAYS UMM HMM WHICH TELLS ME HES HAVING SECOUND THOUGHTS ON SOME THING I LOVE HIM TO MUCH AN DONT WONT US TO PART AN FOR SOMETHING WE DIDNT WONT OUR RELATIONSHIP TO B BASIED ON B THE REASON Y WE PART CAN U PLEASE HELP ME SOON

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A HURTING QUEEN

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Heather
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(Queen: Can you please edit your post so that it is not in all caps? It's just incredibly hard to read that way, especially for those of us with any kind of visual impairment. Thanks!)

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Kath
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"Hi i am 19 years old my boy friend of 10 months is 23 when we got in to our relationship we didnt wont it to only be all about sex an it wasnt so we have come to the point of our relationship about 2 months ago that we wonted to start having sex nether of us were virgins when we start having sex we both went together to go get tested for all stds an got checked for cancer we both say we love each other i really do love him an i dont wont to lose him so here comes the problems problem one my vagina lips they r really big an start to swell 3 hours in to having sex the times were they havent swelled problem number 2 comes in i have never had an orgasm or cam as some people will call it i cant do it myself or with him an he has expressed with me that one of the thing that would make him happy is when he can satisfied me in all ways i told him that when we have sex its great to me other than when my lips swell an i kno hes problem thinking then y can u get u to come ive try to make my self cum ive used oils, silk gloves, built, even tryed anal an it seems nothing works it makes me sad when i think that the man i love is unhappy because he thinks im not enjoying sex i love having sex with him i really need to kno y an how can i fix this problem an what can i do about my lips i dont wont to get surgery done on them an nether dose he i dont kno what to do an late ly with my mother stressing me out an every thing im starting to c him distence himself from me an not wont to touch me or hold me an lately when i say i love u he dosent say it back or he just says umm hmm which tells me hes having secound thoughts on some thing i love him to much an dont wont us to part an for something we didnt wont our relationship to b basied on b the reason y we part can u please help me soon"
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