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bunnie1392
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so me and my boyfriend were messing around and i gave him a handjob and then he readjusted himself and im pretty sure ( but not positive) that some time went by like a couple of minutes before he started rubbin up on me and then he stuck his hands down my pants and fingered me, my question is how high is a pregnancy risk if there was precum on his hand , if there was there wasnt much at all but im worried and freakin out because i was ovulation during that week and i still have a week to go till im supposed to get my period but im freaking out, ive never messed around before so my friend says its my concious but im really scared i could be pregnant what are the chances that i am?
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There is no pregnancy risk from the situation you describe. Possibly transferring trace amounts of pre-cum from one place to another via fingers just isn't something that's going to create a pregnancy risk.

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ok thank you , it makes me feel a little better
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bunnie1392
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so i know freaking out isnt the best thing but like i was just wondering like how much risk does fingering/handjobs have for pregnancys and stds and stuff like that cuz ive still been freaking out that i could be so im just wondering
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Hey bunnie,

1.) Here is a helpful link for you: http://www.scarleteen.com/pregnancy_risk_assessment_manual_sex

2.) If you are becoming stressed or freaked out by the risk's involved in sex (of any kind) then it may be a good time to have a good look into whether you are ready to be involved in it at this time in your life, if you aren't it really is okay to take a break untill it is not something that is going to cause you stress. [Smile]

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well i have read that and the only thing that bugs me is that it doesnt have like an actual number percentage chance it just says none to a very low chance so im not really sure how possible it is u kno? and yes ive talked to my boyfriend because even though i am a virgin and manual sex is all we've tried i am scared of an unwanted pregnancy and i dont like freakin out :/ and thank you for the quick reply [Smile]
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ok so i posted this earlier this month and after what u said i felt so much better but now its the second and my period hasnt come and its a couple days late and im starting to worry again, i had had some tenderness in my breast and some wierd cramping but now my breast are almost normal and no cramping and my period hasnt come so is it possible that i would be pregnant?
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If your period is late, the best thing to do is to just take a pregnancy test for peace of mind.

You did not have a significant pregnancy risk from the situation you described, but it's pretty much impossible to give an exact number, since we don't know things like when you ovulated.

So, why don't you take a pregnancy test? You can trust the results now that your period is late.

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well the thing is i live in a place were to go to the store is too far to walk and u need a ride and i dont have a car and for a while i dont think il be able to get one and im freaking out really bad :/ i mean i figured i had no real risk because not only was there no actual ejaculation there was just some precum but time ( a couple of minutes) had gone by from the moment he readjusted himself to the time he actually fingered me but now im just freakin out because obviously ive refrained from sex to avoid pregnancy so :/ im scared
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Is there someone who can give you a ride or pick up a test for you? Again, it really doesn't sound like you've had a pregnancy risk, but a test is often helpful just for the peace of mind.

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no not really like im trying to get my one friend to do it for me and idk im just really stressing out because ive tried so hard to take care of myself and be abstinent and this was one of like the only two times ive had manual sex in my life i wouldnt want oto be pregnant :/ im also usually very regular so its scary to me [Frown]
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another thing is i have alot of white vaginal discharge idk if thats a sign of pregnancy or not :/
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No, it would not be a sign of pregnancy, but if it is particularly thick or has a strong smell, it may be a sign of an infection that needs treatment. An infection can also make your period late.

Again, I do not see a viable pregnancy risk here, however, if you are in a situation where you can't take care of things such as getting a pregnancy test or contraception on your own, you may want to rethink being sexually active at all.

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well i was recently treated for a UTI but when i had it it didnt affect my period but i just got treated for it so could that be affecting it? i dont have it anymore ( i dont think) so could that be it?
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so i took a hpt and at first i kinda messed up and put pee in the wrong little thingy but um i dried it off and i did it right and very faint line showed up but only one with is negative and i checked almost an hour later and it was still only one line so even though it was faint is it still negative?
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Any sort of illness can affect your cycle, so it's possible that's what's going on here.

Per the pregnancy test, since you didn't use it quite correctly, it might be worth taking another one just to be sure you get an accurate result.

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i took three pregnancy test all came out negative but its been two weeks and still no period :/ should i be concerned?
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Its been three weeks and even though ive had 6 pregnancy test come out all negative should i be concerned with pregnancy?
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No.

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um ok thank you
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