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Laura Lu
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okay to keep it simple.
me and my boyfriend had sex without a condom because he didnt have one on him.
i could have said no to it and yes things would have been fine but we decided to have it anways.
he went pee before we had sex and he wasnt even close to cumming...i finished him off a long time after that from oral sex.
also, this was the day before i was supposed to start my period and its about 5 ays after this happened...im having my period cramps as usual but no period yet...does that just mean my cycle is changing or that im just geting readdy to get my period anytime soon?
i know that the chances of me being pregnant are probably small but i jst really need some reassurance because im a stressful person and i dont want to mistake any stress symptoms as pregnancy symptoms!!

[ 10-17-2009, 12:28 PM: Message edited by: Laura Lu ]

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atm1
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It likely means that your period is just off this month. It sounds like you practiced perfect withdrawal, which isn't the best method, but is certainly something.

It's too soon for a pregnancy test, but I'd agree with you that your risk is small. In another week, if your period still hasn't arrived, you can take a pregnancy test and expect an accurate result.

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Laura Lu
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okays thank you so much.
i dont know to be honest how i could possibly be pregnant becaus ei know that my bf has to me that with his ex(not that i wanted to know) that they would never use protection..always did withdrawal and even had a slipup where he did come inside her and still there was no pregnancy. they went out for 2 years and nothing ever happened with having sex...
do you think that my cramps are due to me being stressed out and that my thinking i am is causing things to be behind in schedule?!

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atm1
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That's quite likely.

Are you and you boyfriend up to date on STI testing? Because having unprotected sex with a partner who you know has had unprotected sex with another partner, you have a very high risk for getting STIs.

Some people get lucky practicing withdrawal--it's just not good to bet on it alone for protection because it's so easy to make mistakes.

In the future, it might be a good idea for *both* of you to keep condoms around, just so that this doesn't happen again.

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Laura Lu
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and yes we both are checked out and he recently got checked when we did star dating a few months ago....its something were very comfy to talk about and he has nothing wrong..

and by the way...what if i miss a full period.
for instance my cramps and everything have gone away and i didnt get my period. the only thing i seem to have now is back aches on my lower back
i also heard that when you mentally put yourself into stress this happens...does that mean that because i have missed this months period
is it because of my major stressing....or does it mean that i could be pregnant?

and i dont feel any other weird things, and also...this happened to me last time i stressed about us having sex(even though we used a condom perfectly) i still had a one day..no period thing happen to me.

and trust me 100% he was sorry and upset that he put me in a uncomfortable position and from now on were alwayyss going to use a condom for no matter what sexual stuff we do.

[ 10-20-2009, 07:04 PM: Message edited by: Laura Lu ]

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Well, then I'd be a bit more worried. The only thing you can do now is just wait until it's been 10-14 days since the risk and take a pregnancy test.
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