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CertifiedSane
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hi...
here goes my question...
me and my girlfriend were fooling around...
she was totally undressed and i had my underwear on...
we were rubbing our private parts together.... me still with my underwear on...
i did not ejaculate.. she came twice... we stopped long before i actually ejaculated...
now.. the problem is pre-cum...
i know that i can't always feel the pre-cum coming out.... and also it may contain a little bit of sperm..
we both are virgins.... we never had penis-in-vagina sex...
now the question is... if there was any pre-cum when we were rubbing against each other, will she get pregnant...?
i also had urinated 10 mins before we did anything...
also, she was supposed to have her period two days back... but stil hasn't... i also know that her period is very irregular.. it skipped a whole month last time...
i love her so much... but we are not in a place where we can have a kid... and we never actually meant to have sex...
so, the possiblity of her getting pregnant has psyched me..
i am so stressed that i can't concentrate on anything else...
so, anyone who has the knowledge, please help me soothe my fear...
thanks a lot in advance...

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ErinK
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It really doesn't sound like she has a risk for pregnancy from that situation. However, if you both want peace of mind, she can certainly take a pregnancy test now. A negative result may help you both to relax.
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CertifiedSane
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hi erin..
thanks for the reply...
we r in a place where we can take pregnancy tests so easily..
any other possibilities?

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CertifiedSane
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sorry..
i meant we are in a place where we "can't" take pregnancy tests easily...
any other suggestions...?

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JamsessionVT
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I honestly don't think you have a pregnancy risk here. A) your underwear would have to be completely dripping with ejaculate or pre-ejaculate for there to be a risk, and B) urinating beforehand is a relatively good sign, as urination tends to clear the urethra of anything leftover.

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CertifiedSane
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thanks a lot, abbie...
this really means a lot to me right now..

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hi..
back again..
my girlfriend had her periods yesterday..
so it's definite that she isn't pregnant?

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Leabug
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Yup- a woman cannot have her period if she is pregnant. So you've got nothing to worry about!

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thanks a lot, lea...!!!!
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