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Im a 13 y.o girl....& a virgin i have tons of older friends that say your first time it hurts so bad....does it?


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It can, but it does not have to.

Women usually eperience pain when they are not relaxed and aroused enough and/or when they are not using enough lube. So, to avoid pain? Wait until you are 100% ready so you're not nervous, make sure that you are completely relaxed and before you attempt penetration, wait until you are fully aroused. And, of course, use condoms with lots of lube.

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These articles might be helpful too:
First Intercourse 101
From OW! to WOW! Demystifying Painful Intercourse

I would have girls regard themselves not as adjectives but as nouns. --Elizabeth Cady Stanton

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yeah, my girlfriend nearly cried our first time. but we moved past it and its all good! [Smile]
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(Stewie, this area is for staff and volunteer responses only, as is the Ask Scarleteen board. See you in the rest of the forums! [Smile] )


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