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That Girl 752
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My boyfriend wiped off pre-cum from his penis. Right after I slightly touched his head with my fingers that had vaginal fluid on them and then after touching his head, I touched my clit for about one second before my boyfriend stopped me. What are the chances I could be pregnat in this situation? Please help =(

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This does not present a pregnancy risk. Your hands would have to be literally dripping with semen and inserted into your vagina for this to create a risk.

However, it does present an STI risk- have you and your partner been tested?

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That Girl 752
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No. I wouldn't want my parents to know whats going on between me and my boyfriend. Although I don't think the doctors could tell my parents, right? Whats the difference between and STI and STD?

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Doctors are bound by law to keep everything that is discussed with their patients confidential, so no, they couldn't tell your parents anything. If you're unable or unwilling to have STI screenings, then it's a good idea to protect yourself and use latex barriers like condoms and gloves.

(STIs- sexually transmitted infections- and STDs- sexually transmitted diseases- are basically interchangeable terms. They mean pretty much the same thing.)

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That Girl 752
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And one more thing, what exactly is a scaleteen volunteer?

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A Scarleteen volunteer is someone who has been chosen by Heather (the founder of Scarleteen, the site you're at) to moderate the boards.

[ 11-25-2007, 08:44 PM: Message edited by: Leabug ]

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That Girl 752
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Yeah, I'm willing, but also alittle embarsed I'd rather not talk face to face about sex with anybody but my partner if i had the choice. But it is something I will discuss with him.

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By the way thanks. Like a ton.
I can't wait till my boyfriend calls
to tell him what you said, I was flipping out.

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No prob [Smile]

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That Girl 752,

Please note that this area (and Ask Scarleteen) are for staff and volunteer replies only. It's fine to reply to your own topics (as you have been in this thread), but it is not ok to reply to other people's topics in this section of the boards. I've deleted the other replies you have posted in these sections, but if you continue to disregard the rules (take a look at the labelings on the sections AND at the thread at the top of both of these areas that says "Staff and Volunteer replies only") will result in your posting privileges being suspended. Feel free to reply around the rest of the boards, but please respect the fact that people who post in these areas want staff and volunteer replies rather than replies from the entire community.

Thanks.

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Oh my god.
I'm really sorry I didn't know.
No offense but this sit is alittle confusing.
I will not continue to reply to other people.
But which section may I give my advice in if i wish?

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nvm i get it sry.

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(You're welcome to reply to threads in any sections or areas other than Ask Scarleteen and Emergencies and Crises, which are in the Expert Advice section. It's ok if you were confused, we just need to keep the boards organized and to reply to users appropriately. As such, we have rules about where things should be posted and about issues like using correct spelling and grammar, etc. If you have questions, please let us know via the Contact Us link at the bottom of the board pages or in the Site Help and Service section.)

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