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Can my girlfriend get pregnant if we had dry sex (she wore thongs and I wore jeans, boxers, and some of my shirt covered my crotch)? She went on top of me and humped me really hard, and when I went to the bathroom, I had precum spot on my pants and when I looked at my boxers it had a big spot of precum. Can she get pregnant? And we did it twice, the first time with jeans and the other time with dickies pants. She was really wet and I was wondering if sperm could have gotten to her vagina and if she can get pregnant. Also, I fingered her and when I was done she got close to those same jeans with a little the precum spot, and if she had touched that spot with her vagina can she get pregnant that way too?

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Really, you'd have to try pretty hard to get pregnant from any of these scenarios. Sperm are hardy little guys, but not to the extent that they can bust through 3, even 2 layers of clothing and impregnate someone.

You're fine in all of the aforementioned instances.

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So my girlfriend doesnt want to take birth control until its totally necessary. And we wont have sex because we think its best to wait. would you recommend birth control in this situation because all we really do is have dry sex like this and give oral and manual sex...

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As long as you are both fully clothed during the dry sex, and as long as there is no direct genital contact with anything else, there is no pregnancy risk. However, with things like oral sex, it's best to wear a condom anyway to reduce the STI risk.

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no direct genital contact...with anything else. what does that mean?

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[Oops- the post was deleted as I was responding! [Smile] ]

[ 11-25-2007, 08:35 PM: Message edited by: Leabug ]

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the problem about unprotected sex is that it can lead to huge problems if youre careless. you should get her to take a pregnancy test because theres always a chance...
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[Stewie- this is your third warning. This area is for staff and volunteer responses only. Please refrain from posting here and in Ask Scarleteen unless it's in your own thread or to ask a question.

Plus, there's really no need for a pregnancy test here, as there was no risk.]

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