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thewaitress
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Hi [Smile]

I should know this, but on the 29th me & my boyfriend were practising using condoms ( flavoured), and I went down orally on him.

In the spur of the moment, I decided why not try how it feels to let him penetrate me.. so I did, and it was all fine, I kept checking whether the condom was still there (it was), but he slipped out a while later (30 seconds?) and we sorta panicked seeign white fluid on the base of his penis (he hadn't ejaculated) but now I realise those were my own fluids.. what waoories me is we didn't hold the bas eof the condom while taking the penis out, and it *looked* as though the condom had slipped up a centimtere or so.. my question is--is that a substantial risk? Should I be worried. I'm not on BC.

Thanks for the help,
the waitress

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Karybu
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There's really no risk here - if the condom only slipped a centimeter or so, no need to worry. You're fine as long as it didn't slip all the way off.

(Just as a note, flavoured condoms really aren't meant to be used for intercourse, as the ingredients in the flavouring can upset the natural balance of bacteria in the vagina. Next time, switch to a regular condom with lots of water-based lube.)

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thewaitress
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Thanks so much! [Smile] I was getting myself worked up, but now I can relax. [Smile]
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