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darko
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My girfriend and I have never had sex. We have been dating for a month and some change now and it's something we have opted not to do because we don't want our relationship to be sex driven. We do however do other things, haven't done oral yet but HJ's and also penetration with the finger have been. My concern is that the other night, she was rubbing me out, I did my duty, picked up with my left hand walked over to my chair, wiped it off, then fingered her with my right hand. Now I'm not positive whether I got anything on my right hand or not. Also a note to mention, this was 2 days after her period got over. I'm not super worried, but I have read some other forums today that looked good then others that worried me sick. Lol

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wobblyheadedjane
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In order for there to be a risk, your hand would have had to be soaking with semen, which tends to be pretty noticeable. So it sounds like you're in the clear.

Don't forget, even if you're not engaging in intercourse, you're still engaging in forms of sexual activity (manual sex, oral sex in the future, it sounds like) So be sure you're keeping it safe, and aware of the STI risks involved with different activities. We have lots of helpful articles on the main site to guide you.

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darko
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Thank you very much. I wasn't super worried, and our relationship is very mature for our ages. But I just thought I would ask. This site is very helpful! Good organization.

Thanks!
Derek

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