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ilyana
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Okay yesterday my boyfriend gave me oral sex yesterday after he jerked off. He didn't touch my vagina at all, just my clitoris and he wiped his semen off on his clothes. His semen didn't get on his hand, just his clothes. My period ended 6 days ago and my ovulution date is supposedly in about 5 days based on my 28-29 day cycle.

What are the chances of me getting pregnant? I have this rabid fear that some of his ejaculation somehow got near my opening (considering he was touching my clit)

Wouldn't the life span of the sperm be decreased once they are exposed to air? If it did get into me, won't they die before my ovulation date comes since they were already exposed to air? I came when I orgasmed so I guess that means my vaginal fluid flowed out? I heard it's acidic so will that kill off the sperms that was in the area? Please help! [Frown]

[ 09-02-2006, 12:11 AM: Message edited by: ilyana ]

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ErinK
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You have NO chance of pregnancy from that risk you described.

1) Semen die pretty quickly after they're exposed to air.

2) You said it was on his clothes, not on his hand.

For future peace of mind, have him go and wash his hands afterwards. [Smile]

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ilyana
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However, I read some where that sperms only die in 30 mins to 4 hours when exposed to air =O

His semen might have gotten on his hands but he wiped it off . Gosh I'm so paranoid. Does this mean I'm still at risk?

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LilBlueSmurf
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No.

I've never heard of sperm living 30mins to 4 hours ... We tell people that sperm can live around 20mins in an inhospitable environment (such as on hands). However, sperm cannot live in dry conditions. If his hands were dry, any sperm that may have been there in the first place are now dead.

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