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Triowe
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hi im worried because my bf and me had sex last night and no protection. we had sex for 1 hour straight but he never did cum so i dont think i can get pregnant. he didnt cum AT ALL when he took it out either he never could cum and he said its because he just peed before we had sex. is that true does that make it harder 4 a guy to ejaculate or is there something wrong wtih me? is there any pregnancy risk since he said he didnt come in me? Since we had sex for a full hour do u think some cum could have got in me and him not know? My period was only about a week ago so it will be a long time to wait for my next one. please help me
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Heather
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Men can't feel pre-ejaculate during intercourse.

If he DID urinate just before sex, then there being viable sperm in his pre-ejaculate would be unlikely, but we can't say a pregnancy risk is impossible here. Suffice it to say, you had high STI risks, too.

If you do not wish to become pregnant, I'd suggest obtaining emergency contraception today, and -- obviously -- not having unprotected intercourse again until you DO wish to become pregnant.

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quote:
Originally posted by Triowe:
he didnt cum AT ALL when he took it out either he never could cum and he said its because he just peed before we had sex. is that true does that make it harder 4 a guy to ejaculate or is there something wrong wtih me?

There is nothing wrong with you. It's not at all unusual to be unable to ejacualate every now and then. However, that's not because of you or anything you did or didn't do. Things like alcohol, stress, certain medications, etc. can make it harder for men to ejaculate but that is an issue with their own bodies and in no way reflects their partner.
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