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2 weeks ago wendesday me and my boyfriend broke up after almost 6 months. during our whole relationship he was controling and would call me names such as "stupid" and "whore". i would call him names alot. we would have intense fights and attack eachother verbally. one time we had a huge fight and he told me not to touch him and i placed my hand on his leg and he flinched like he was going to kick me. he has lied about everything, such as his number of sexual partners in the past. On valintine's day i was made aware that he hit his ex girlfriend. Upon finding this out i asked him and he denyed it. another time i was at his house on his computer and i came across a documment that stated he had infact hit his ex. it was the document he had to write up for the court. i asked him about this and he was mad for me going through his computer. now 2 weeks ago i met him at a mcdonalds in the parking lot to return to him his varsity jacket. we got into an argument. he called me fat, a bitch, ect i called him names too...i slapped him across the face and he spit in my face. we continued to argue and i went to slap him again and he grabbed my wrist and twisted it around. i had to get a wrist brace. we continued to talk after this happened and he made threats of killing himself and killing me. Wendsday of this week i agreed to meet him at the mall to give him one more chance. we ended up having sex in the parking lot, i have a yeast infection, which i have been getting since i started having sex with him. i had never had an infection and my life and was a virgin before him. He has had 9 sexual partners before me. we walked around the mall for a couple of hours and i walked him out to the car. we had an argument and i told him how i had warned some girls he liked about him. he then approached me and i stepped back. he told me he wasn't going to hurt me and i let him approach me. he put his hand on my shoulder and whispered "i'll break your neck" and squeezed my shoulder. i ran back into the mall and he called me saying he had one more thing to say and that he was coming over to my car. he drove over to my car and i got in his car. we had another argument and i tried to slap him and he grabbed my wrist and squeezed it hard. then. he continued to call me names and even poked my stomach and told me what a fat wh*re i was. after that there was a pause and i guess i smiled at him becasue he spit in my face and slapped my across my right temple. i saw stars and my ear was ringing. i tried to get out of the car and he held me in. i tried to scream and he put his hand over my mouth i bit it and he stopped. i screamed and screamed and one car stopped but drove away. when i finally got free i ran away and he followed me. i went back to my car and he knelt next to me and started crying saying how he was going to kill himself tonight. after this he left. he called me asking if there was any of his stuff i wanted. the next morning e was still alive and one of his friends messages me asking me why i tried to get him to kill himself. the next night my best firend saw him at a club in our area. tonight he is going out drinking. i don't kno what to do. i don't want him to go to jail but i want him to get the help he needs not to do this to anyone else ever again. please help me.

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Why are you even agreeing to still see this person? You know he is violent, is a liar, a cheat and is dangerous to you and others. I don't know about Ohio but uttering death threats carries a prison term in Canada. He may also be guilty of assault. I strongly suggest you get a restraining order against him and end all (and I mean all), contact with him.

I do not feel obliged to believe that the same God who has endowed us with sense, reason, and intellect has intended us to forgo their use.

- Galileo

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< -- see Smurf's comment -- >

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Hey hot4nerds,

While we appreciate all the help we can get, this area of the boards is for sexpert and advocate responses only. Feel free to check out the other forums!


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