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shock
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first of all im an idiot. and heres my problem. my gf and i were being very uhh bad i guess. and that day she gave me oral and then we cleaned up and i washed my hands and everything 20 minutes later i gave her manual. cleaned up. and hour later i attempt anal on her i touch her anus with my penis a few times but never really penetrate, then stop and finishs manually. wash up. another hour later try the anal again and again stop then i perfrom manual on her and oral a little. yeah once again im dumb and im wondering what kind of chance she could be pregnant. each time i washed it was with soap and water.a lot of soap and water. i read through all the how much of a risk thing. but it didnt really cover how much of a risk just touching the anus with penis would be..i never ejaculated on or near her and im pretty sure that i didnt have much if any precum just kinda touched her anus for a second and 2 different times.so i was kinda wondering..i think if were ok after this one im gonna gonna call it quits on the whole sexual thing for awhile im tired of worrying. its not worth it.

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Heather
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Well, if you're not ready to practice sex safely and responsibly, then yes, it is a very good call to hold off until you can. I assure you that when you ARE ready to practice sex safely, with the tools you need to do so -- like condoms -- that it'll be a lot less worrying.

In the scenario described, you have little to no risk of pregnancy. Unless ejaculate or pre-ejaculate came in direct contact with your partners vulva, there is not a pregnancy risk.

You both do, however, have STD/STI risks, so be sure and get your yearly STI tests and screenings this year without fail. And be sure that if you chaange your mind and DO decide to stay sexually active, that you start doing so safely. For help with that, check out:

- Ready or Not? –The Readiness Checklist
- Safe, Sound & Sexy – A Safer Sex How-To
- Margaret Sanger’s Disneyland - An easy chart of your birth control options


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shock
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thank you miz scarlet thank you
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