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I know this was stupid..but my boyfriend and i had unprotected sex..and we usually never ever ever do, cuz he and i are both at the top of our class and know the consequences.. but we got caught up..and we didn't use a condom..he pulled out, but some him the outside of my the very very outside, is there a likely chance i could be pregnant. cuz i can't tell my mom, or anyone..things like this just don't happen in my family, i seriously can't handle this.
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Take a deep breath and get to an emergency room. If your vulva came into contact with pre-ejaculatory fluid of semen, then yes, you have a serious pregnancy risk. Go to the emergency room (normally, i'd say Planned Parenthood, but it's Christmas, and clinics are closed and time is of the essence) and get emergency contraception. Take the pills as directed and you should be fine.

Honestly, if the consenquences are that serious for you (fear of family retribution, fear of not getting into college, fear of whatever), strongly consider waiting until you can handle them better. it's okay to say no.

Don't be coward like shrimp, be brave like PRAWN!

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Gummy's right, and if you definitely cannot get to the emergency room this evening, first thing tommorrow morning, call a planned parenthood or whatever sexual health clinic you choose.

Here's the website of a PP near you.

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