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kandie
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Last night I ran into the one person I didn't want to see, and that was the guy that raped and beat me when I was 13....I was so scared and I didn't even no what to do. He started yelling at me and calling me down (names that I won't mention) and telling me that if I went anywhere without him we would do the same to me againe I ran this time not even thinking twice about it I wasn't about to get hurt like that againe.
But now Im scared I don't want him to come her and hurt me r my family and Im scared to call the cops! There isn't a day that goes by when I don't think about that night and now it's like it coming back.....
Im just starting to come around and now this what do I do I don't wanna die or get beat

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Heather
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Take a minute and ask yourself if it's sensible to be more afraid of the police than of a former rapist.

Done yet? Okay. So, now you go offline and call the police and make a report. They'll do the footwork and likely get a restraining order to protect you, and that alone -- equaling an instant arrest if this person comes within a certain distance of you or harasses you further -- is usually enough to keep someone like this at bay.

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kandie
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I think I will call the cops but im scared too! he disspared last time and now allof a sudden he's here it's like a night mare come true thanks for listeing thou...I think i'll call

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