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i may be over reacting but...
yesterday i gave my boyfriend a hand job and he ejaculated. he went to the washroom to wash up and go pee. when he was done, i went to wash up too. about 25-35 minutes later, i went to the washroom on the same toilet. is it possible that while he was in the washroom, some of his ejaculate could have kept coming out, and got on the toilet bowl and make me pregnant? when i went pee, i made sure that my vulva didnt come into contac with the seat. could i some how of got semen on me from the seat, like if i pulled up my underwears and it rubbed against me??? please help! do i need the pill that makes you not pregnant???

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It's very, very, very unlikely that semen got onto your vulva. I think that if you calm down and think about the likelihood that semen/pre-ejaculate got smeared on your vulva, you'll calm down a bit. Sperm can live in a hostile enviroment (like outside) for up to 20 minutes.

To prevent these kinds of scares in the future, always use barrier protection (such as condoms) so that you can prevent pregnancy AND STDs--you and your boyfriend do have an STD risk with unprotected manual sex.

So, why don't you start some good conversation with your partner about keeping yourselves healthy and safe--you can print out these articles and read them together:
Safe, Sound & Sexy A Safer Sex How-To
What's The Risk? - Five Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessment Flow Charts
A Quickie STD/STI Risk Assessment (get tested, STD/STI rates are incredibly high among teens right now)
Sexual Negotiations for the Long Haul

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1) It's highly unlikely that ejaculate "kept coming out" of his penis, especially if he was urinating.

2) Even if some ejaculate did get on the toilet, sperm can only survive for 20 minutes outside of a friendly environment.

3) Then, you'd have to come into contact with it, and it sounds like you didn't.

So, I think you're overreacting here. I'm glad that you're concerned, but I don't think that you have a pregnancy risk. If you'd like some help in assessing pregnancy risks for various sexual activities, we have an article called What's The Risk? - Five Easy Pregnancy Risk Assessment Flow Charts that will help you assess your risk.


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