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iceyhot2222
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hello,
last nite I was with my girlfriend and we had sex with a condom plus i pulled out before i ejaculated. I then took off the condom and then about 5 minutes later i fingered her for like 5 seconds. Im worried that sperm could of gotten on my fingers before i fingered her? can you still have living sperm on you even if it is not visible or you cant feel it? also i was wondering if the lubes on the condom would kill the sperm? is there a high risk of pregnancy?

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Heather
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Sperm are miscroscopically small. You cannot see them with just your eyes in any situation.

In general, you should always wash your hands before manual sex, period, or use latex gloves. That not only safeguards against sperm being "moved," but against STDs and STIs that could be transmitted.

In your case, unless you touched the inside of the condom, I'd say the chances are slim. Lubricant won't kill sperm, no, but it's unlikely in taking the condom off you really had contact with your semen.

Lastly, there is no need to "pull out" when wearing a condom, and, in fact, doing so abruptly could cause the condom to slip off accidentally. Condoms are designed to be worn through all of intercourse.

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iceyhot2222
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thank you for your help, i think i decided that sex isnt worth it for me right now because everytime i do i always get wicked scared so its really not worth it now cuz im not ready i guess
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Does Abstinence make the Heart Grow Fonder? is an article all about abstaining from sex - for whatever reason. I think it will help reinforce your decision.
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