Last nite my g/f gave me head, and I was going to return teh favour by either oral sex or fingering her, but when push came to shove i choked and didnt do anything. Now Im staying at her house tonite and well she dosnt mind me fingering her,we've talked aabout it... but I was wondering if you could give me some tips before i go. Just so she enjoys it as much as if not more than me...I would put this in another board but i have to c her in 1hr so its an emergency !!!
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Sorry, we can't give out technique advice around here for two basic reasons. They are as follows:
This board is PG-13 and our guidelines don't allow it.
It wouldn't do you any good anyway. There's no secret sex manual that will tell you exactly how to please your partner. There's no way to know what your partner will like without asking them. You've gotta ask about stuff like that. You'll probably find she's perfectly willing to tell you what she enjoys, what makes her feel good, and what her limits are sexually.
Also, please keep in mind that both oral and manual sex carry STD risks (and no, not having been with anyone else doesn't mean that you're guarenteed 100% clean). So take along a supply of condoms, dental dams, latex gloves and water-based lubricant!
quote: i have to c her in 1hr so its an emergency !!!
No, it's not. If you were in danger of some sort, it would be an emergency. If you had suffered an assault, that would also be an emergency. Wanting to know how to perform a sex act is hardly an emergency, by any reasonable standards.
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